Men are never allowed to make demands about female behavior for the sake of male comfort.

As a former /incel, one of the biggest issues I had with the community was the expectation that women should spontaneously alter their behavior (or, better yet, stop being women altogether) in order to grant us easy access and comfort.<br><br>Like, women don't have to let us touch their bodies, kiss them, fuck them, have children with them, or even talk to us. It's their right to choose. But incels will often say things like "they should give us a chance" or "they should be more willing to date us" or "women should be more open to casual sex." Men are never entitled to a romantic relationship, and women are never entitled to a single thing they do. But incels still make demands of them.<br><br>One of the things that got me out of the /incel lifestyle was realizing that women aren't obligated to us. They're not obligated to fuck us, they're not obligated to date us, and they're definitely not obligated to have children with us. We are never entitled to access to their bodies. Women are their own people, and they have their own rights and agency in this world.<br><br>That's why I always say that being nice is the best policy, because we never know when someone is going to give us a chance. Women don't owe us a chance, but we owe it to ourselves to be as nice and as attractive as possible so that they will. We are the only ones who are obligated to ourselves. Women are obligated to no one, and that's what makes them so powerful.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>&#x200B;