It's true: girls just don't find us attractive

As a man who was always chubby, I never realized the lack of effort women put into finding a man that is attractive to her. I have been in relationships where my gf would actively go out with men she finds more attractive than me, even though I am a good boyfriend. <br><br>Recently, I was talking to a girl I went to high school with. We both were chubby back in the day and she is now in great shape. We were talking about our ex boyfriends and I found out she went out with a guy who was way more attractive than me. She was very open about how she would rather find someone who is good looking and a great person. She has no problem dating someone who is more attractive to her. <br><br>It was a reality check for me to see that she finds men more attractive to her than me. It's not my fault I am not attractive, but I was hoping she would choose me over a more attractive guy, but I guess that is not how it works.