I'm a woman who was a grossed out by male nudity even when i had a boyfriend. Why do I see so many posts from men complaining about it

This is kind of a throw away account cause I'm not really active on here. I just saw a post of a chambers woman who said she'd be cool with being surprised by her man's schlong but that it has to be in context of a sexual relationship. I get where she's coming from. I used to work in a gym where I'd see men's junk on a daily basis and it used to make me so uncomfortable. I remember once I was on a break with my ex boyfriend and he came to pick me up from work in his underwear and I was so mortified that I begged him to leave. I just don't find men attractive. I never got crushes on any boys and I've been a virgin until recently and I don't have any desire to get sexual with men. I was in a relationship with my boyfriend and I thought maybe I'll get into him sexually but I just don't. I think my ex was aware of it but didn't mind cause we were in a romantic relationship and we got into physical contact in other ways.<br><br>What I'm trying to get at is that I understand women might not find men attractive or be grossed out by male nudity. It's probably not uncommon but it's definitely not talked about. I see so many posts from men complaining about how they can't get women into bed with them and I understand it's probably not as simple as women being picky but I just don't get why so many of them are so angry about it and say that there's a woman shortage when women are just not attracted to most men and it's okay. I'm sure that there are some women who are grossed out by male nudity but it's not a thing that's discussed cause men don't talk about their own insecurities. I think it's better that way and I hope women who are not attracted to most men just accept that and don't feel bad about it.