Just got rejected by my first girlfriend in 5 years. And I was finally starting to believe incels.

Hello everyone. I’m in my late 20’s and never really dated. I finally found the courage to go out and make new friends, and that happened. One of my friends, a girl I’ll call Cindy, took a liking to me and we started dating. I never really had an idea how to play games or act in a way to attract a woman, and she was always so affectionate with me and would tell me how much she liked me. It was so strange. It wasn’t until she broke up with me a day ago that I started seeing all of these dark reality based threads on this site. <br><br>I feel like I’ve been hit with a bag of ice water and am now seeing the reality of the situation. Is it really true that women only want chad’s? Why do these incels post the same “women ruin everything” and “women are only good for cum and sex” posts every day? Do you guys just want to be seen as victims in this world? The fact of the matter is that women have the right to choose whoever they want, whenever they want. <br><br>I’ve never felt this way before and my whole world has been turned upside down. I always thought incels were crazy but now I think I agree with them. What is the solution? Is it just accepting being lonely forever? Why do you guys blame women when it’s not their fault you aren’t attractive? You say it’s not your fault you aren’t attractive, but you always blame women when you aren’t attractive. It has to be your fault right? Or am I just a liar like all of you? <br><br>I apologize if this comes off as mean, it’s just how I feel.