Why do men love dating dumb women

Why do men date women with low intelligence? I’ve never been a dumb person, and I have never been able to understand the attraction to stupid women. I only knew one girl who I could relate to, and I got friend-zoned by her. It makes no sense. I dated this girl named “Mary”. She had very low intelligence. I was 18 and she was 19, and she still had a 11 year old’s mental capacity. <br><br>She couldn’t do anything on her own, she didn’t know how to make her own food, she couldn’t drive, she couldn’t even do simple things like washing dishes. I was the one who was teaching her how to drive, and I was the one teaching her how to cook.<br><br>She didn’t have a very nice face either, and she had a really loud voice. I only liked one thing about her, and that’s her breasts.<br><br>I knew she was dumb and not able to take care of herself, so I made it clear that I wouldn’t be marrying her and would not move in after graduation, so she shouldn’t get too comfortable. But she got very upset when I said that, and she told me “I’m not good enough for marriage? You don’t like me that much? You only like one thing about me”. I said I did like about her about her, but not enough to marry her. She went off the rails after that, and she told me that she was never going to love again, that she was going to stay a virgin forever.<br><br>It hurt me to hear her say that, so I told her “I’ll stay with you until the end of the semester, and I’ll make sure you get a good job. I’ll even give you a car for free”. She still cried and said that it wasn’t enough. She said “I’m not good enough for marriage? You don’t like me that much?” And she didn’t talk to me for weeks. She didn’t even eat the food that I made for her, and I eventually had to get delivery food so she wouldn’t starve to death. I was very sad seeing her like that.<br><br>After the semester was over, she made me uncomfortable by hugging me a lot. I told her “Mary, I have a girlfriend back home, so I don’t want to have a physical relationship with you.” She said “It’s fine. I’ll be your girlfriend and eventually your wife. I know that men like dumb women, so you’re going to like me more eventually.” I told her “I don’t like dumb women. You have to have more intelligence than that to be worthy of love.” And I was shocked when she started hitting me. She said “Shut up, you’re going to love me whether you like it or not.”<br><br>She was the kind of girl who always wanted to be taken care of, she was very spoiled, she had very low self-esteem, and she was a total burden. She had a really loud voice and was not that pretty either. She didn’t even know how to make basic meals like fried rice, or boiled chicken. And I could go on and on about how useless she was. I was a part-time job to support, a full time chef, and a personal driver to her.<br><br>I still remember how sad I was seeing her hit me. I was the one who always protected her, I never hit her or mistreated her, so I didn’t know what to say when she started hitting me. I just stood there with tears in my eyes, and I cried “Mary, I don’t like you like that. I’m not going to marry you. You’re too dumb, too useless, too ugly, too spoiled. I’m not going to be your boyfriend anymore, I don’t like you that much. Why can’t you understand that?” She didn’t say anything, she just kept hitting me. It hurt me so much, so I took a while to calm her down.<br><br>I told her that I wanted space, so I broke things up with her and blocked her. She didn’t like it, she sent me a lot of nasty messages, she even said she was never going to love again. It made me really sad to hear that, so I ended up taking a break from dating. I know I was overreacting a little bit, but I still think that men like women with intelligence more.<br><br>I’ve only been with one other girl after that incident, and she was a real goth. She was really into black clothes and goth culture, but she wasn’t dumb like Mary. She was very smart and was really good at solving math problems and reading books. She liked playing video games, and she even loved anime and manga. She was a real otaku, but I still liked her because she had good taste in media and was very intelligent. We were both huge nerds and we could talk about all the nerd stuff together, and I could finally relate to a girl.<br><br>She even loved the same anime that I liked, so it was very rare for me to find a girl who liked the same things as me. I didn’t really know how to tell her how I liked her, and I was really shy and awkward, so I just told her I liked her. I told her “You’re the only girl I could ever relate to. You have great taste in anime and manga, and I can finally talk about anime with you. You’re very intelligent and smart, I know you have great taste in everything. I like you, I’ve never liked any other girl but you. Please be my girlfriend?” She said “I like you too. I’m so happy that I finally met a man who likes the same things as me.” I was so happy that I finally found a girl who liked the same things as me.<br><br>We dated for a year, and we had a lot of fun together. We watched anime, we played video games, we went to anime festivals, and we talked about math problems and solved them together. I never knew dating could be so much fun with a girl who had the same interests as me.<br><br>But one day, she had a heart attack at school. I was very sad and I cried for hours. I didn’t know what to do, so I called her parents and asked them what I should do. They said “Sorry, we can’t let you see her. She’s going to be in a coma for a long time, but she’s going to make it.” I was very sad hearing that, so I broke down in tears. Her parents said “You guys have only been dating for a year, you can wait for her. We know she wants you to wait.” I was sad, but I said “Okay, I’ll wait for her.”<br><br>It’s been a year and a half, and she’s still in a coma. Her parents told me that she might not make it. They said “She had a very rare genetic disorder. She might not wake up. We can’t let you see her, you’re not family.”<br><br>I said “I know that it’s not your fault, but please let me see her one last time. If she doesn’t make it, I don’t think I can live with myself. I’ve never liked any other girl but her, so I can never date again.”<br><br>They said “Okay. We know you guys really liked each other, and we can’t let you guys apart like that. We know you guys were meant to be together. We’ll let you see her if you want. If she doesn’t make it, you can decide whether you want to date again or not. But we know that you’re not going to find another girl as intelligent and smart as her.”<br><br>I was very sad, so I said “Okay. I want to see her one last time.” Her parents said “Okay. We know you guys were meant to be together, and we can’t let you guys apart like that.” They let me see her one last time, but I was sad when I saw her. She was hooked up to a lot of machines and had a lot of wires attached to her, and she was covered in a white sheet.<br><br>I cried for a long time, and her parents just let me be. After a long time of crying, I told her “I’ll always remember you as my one and only love. You were so smart, so beautiful, and had great taste in everything. You were the only girl I ever liked. If you don’t make it, I don’t think I can live with myself. I’ve never liked any other girl but you, and I know I can never date again.” I said that I loved her and that I’d miss her forever. Her parents cried along with me, and they said “We know you guys were meant to be together, so we can’t let you guys apart like that.”<br><br>After a while, I left. I didn’t know what to do, so I just sat in my room and cried for days. Her parents called me everyday and asked if I was okay, and I just said “I’m not okay, I can never be okay. She’s the only girl I ever liked, so I can never live with myself if I date again.” They just said “Okay, we’ll let you know if she wakes up.”<br><br>I still don’t know if she’s okay or not. She’s still in a coma, and I miss her so much. I’ve never liked any other girl but her, and I know I can never live with myself if I date again. I was very lucky to have found her, and I know that I can never find a girl as smart and intelligent as her.<br><br>It made me realize that it’s really important to be smart and have good taste in things. I shouldn’t have dated that stupid girl named Mary, and I’m very lucky to have found her before I dated any other stupid girl.