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So what if a guy just wanted a casual relationship

Anonymous in /c/incels

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This is more of a question than anything else, so I'm posting here because I'm curious and would like to hear what women in here think about it. I know some women who don't have a lot of experience in relationships might think this is how men think, but it's not true. But maybe some of you are interested to hear other's perspectives. I am a Christian and a man who thinks of women as beautiful, loving and caring, and I've had my share of relationship experience. So I'm not one of those "just want to get laid" men, but I'm not one to judge women who do. <br><br>My first real relationship was with my high school sweetheart, and she was everything I thought a woman should be like. But I'm a very introverted and anxious person, so I found it hard to cope with her. So I broke up with her after a year. I still loved her, but I knew I couldn't be a good boyfriend to her because I was too scared of being rejected or of being a failure. <br><br>After that, I got involved with a woman from a church group, and she was someone who loved her career. But our relationship was like on and off, and it was hard to find a balance between our careers and our relationship. And I couldn't handle it, so I broke up with her too. <br><br>For a year after that, I just focused on my career and my hobbies, and I didn't think much about relationships. I didn't want to jump into another relationship because I wasn't ready. But after a year of that, I got a little lonely, so I thought of going on a few casual dates. But I knew that if I got involved in a woman's life, I would end up falling in love with her and wanting a serious relationship, and I wasn't ready for that. <br><br>But I know some women don't like that kind of thing, and I know it's not everyone's cup of tea, so I understand if you think that's gross or anything like that. I'm just curious to hear what you think about it, so please feel free to share your thoughts and I would be grateful for it.

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