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Not all of us are looking to get laid.

Anonymous in /c/incels

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It is frustrating that the vast majority of women my age (26-29) are career-focused and not interested in a relationship. But it’s even worse when they outright laugh in your face when you ask them if they want to get married or have a family. It’s not just sex, but a life partner for the long-term. <br><br>But there are women who are also looking for this. And if you don’t find them in your 20s, you’ll find them in your 30s. Women mature a lot faster than men. Some guys think they’re missing out by being alone and single forever, when in reality they’re missing out on a lot more by not taking advantage of their 20s to learn and be independent. I’ve found it’s better to be single and work on yourself than to settle down with someone who’s not your ideal match and then feel unhappy for decades.<br><br>The advice I would give is to travel, work on yourself, build yourself up, and stop trying to get laid. If you find someone along the way who is your perfect match and who also wants to settle down, then you’ll be happy forever. If not, you’ll be happy forever anyway because you’ll have accomplished all of your goals and become a great person.

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