If I say "I like girls with a little bit of fat", what does that make me?

So, I'm a guy who's 6'3", 200 lbs, and works out 4-5 times a week. I've always been told I'm physically attractive and have a lot of confidence in that area, but I feel like there's something missing that keeps me from getting into a serious relationship. <br><br>For the past year or so, I've been thinking that a girl with some extra fat would be so much more attractive than someone super skinny and skinny fat. I would never ever date an extremely underweight girl, and I always feel the need to say that so people know that's not what I mean.<br><br>I've had friends call me out on it, like "you don't like normal weight girls?" And I'm always like "yeah, I guess I do, but you know what's even better, a girl who can gain a few pounds." I feel bad every time I say it, but it just comes naturally to me.<br><br>For example, Taylor Swift. I'm sure she's got a great personality, and she seems like a nice person. But she's so skinny. I've heard her say that she has a eating disorder. And honestly, I just don't find her attractive. <br><br>Now, imagine a version of Taylor Swift, but a little bit chubbier. Like her, but with more curves. That's the kind of girl I find attractive. But every time I say that, it just feels like I'm coming off as this huge asshole.<br><br>So, chambers, what does it make me when I say that? Am I a bad person for thinking that a girl needs to be a little chubby to be attractive? Do I need to start liking skinny girls?