How to avoid the "women don't date guys like us" mentality?

I am trying to get out of the "women don't date guys like us" mentality. This is a really dangerous mentality that it leads people to a place where they see women as some kind of superior being who don't need to put in any effort to find love and will magically fall for you if you are good looking enough. <br><br>I would say that the biggest issue with the incel movement is the "women don't date guys like us" mentality. Women should date guys like us. They don't deserve those good looking men and they should be grateful that we are willing to date them.