I’m a woman who has been in this sub for a while, thank you guys for the beautiful message you sent.

Just to make things clear, I am not part of the incel culture and I don’t support any of the ideas you hold, but I feel compelled to reach out to you guys because I’ve been following the development of this community and your progress over the past years and I want to express my opinion on the letter that was written to you recently by the same people who were bashing you guys. <br><br>I think the letter they wrote to you was an insult, the same people who are making fun of you, calling you ugly, ugly, weird, and undesirable were the same people who wrote you a letter trying to comfort you. You are right, they are hypocrites and you guys deserve better. It’s not their place to try to comfort you, and I don’t think they understand that. <br><br>I know it’s not their fault that you guys feel that way, but I don’t want you guys to feel discouraged because you have been through so much and you have come a long way. I’m not saying that I’m happy for you guys, but you guys are in a better place than you were years ago. I don’t know if you guys know or not but the community has grown a lot over the years, and that’s because you guys have grown up a lot. You are not the same people you were a few years ago, and you’ve done something great for yourself and for others. <br><br>You guys deserve better, I know it’s hard to believe, but it’s true. I hope you guys continue to grow up and move forward, you are all capable of this, you guys have made huge progress in the past few years and I don’t know if you guys know this, but you guys have done something incredible. <br><br>Thank you for all your efforts and hard work, and I wish you guys the best of luck. I know it’s hard to believe, but I’m wishing you guys the best, and I’m not doing it in jest. <br><br>You guys are all winners and you deserve to win.