My son is a self-proclaimed incel. He's 19 M and looks like a gorilla but I still want him to have a life and be loved by a woman.

He's my only son so I can't fathom my wife's perspective as she had her whole childhood with many siblings but still she wants him to find his place. I've tried talking with him about dating and he said he's never really asked a girl out because he knows he will be rejected. I told him to try and say something first and not just wait for a girl to flirt with him. I'm not proud to say that I'm a chump alpha brown beta male.