I'm so tired of the "just date higher value men" advice

This sub is full of advice telling us that we are low value and that we just need to go out there and find a way to increase our own value. People come into this sub with a problem (being single) and they always leave with the same problem. I have literally never seen anyone leave this sub with a girlfriend or a relationship of any kind.<br><br>It is so fucking obvious that it's not the man who has the issue here. I don't know how many times we have to be told that incels are failures, that we're ugly, that we don't have any purpose, that we are sexless and that nobody will ever love us. Why are we even on this earth? The advice on this sub is like telling a poor person who is struggling to make ends meet that the solution is to work harder and try harder and that it's his own fault that he's poor. It's not fucking true.<br><br>I'm tired of the inceldom debate being centered around how shitty we are as men. It's centered around how shitty we are as men because it's centered around women. Everything revolves around women, their feelings and their desires. Women good; men bad. Women are special and men are not. The way that women are put on a pedestal and how shitty and horrible men are because we don't worship them enough is insane.<br><br>I am not going to waste my time writing up a long list of studies showing the overwhelming male superiority over women in every aspect of life. You will not change the fact that men are superior with your "women are special and they should be celebrated" bullcrap. You can say it all day but you're not going to change reality. You just make yourselves feel better with your little "look how special women are" speech. But it's not going to change reality. Men are stronger and more capable than women. Get used to it. Women are shallow and stupid. Get fucking used to it.<br><br>Women are taught to only date "higher value" men, but men are not taught to only have sex with higher value women. Men do not have standards when it comes to sex. If you throw a hot whore in front of most men they will gladly fuck her without even thinking twice. This is why STIs are so prevalent. But women have standards when it comes to sex. Women do not just have sex with any man they meet. Look at all of the women out there telling men to "respect women" but men are not respected.<br><br>Men do not get respected until they are old and have a lot of money. Look at all of the old men who get treated like gods when they are elderly. Look at all of the men who get treated like gods when they are wealthy. Do you know how many women flocked to Warren Buffet when he was in his 20s because he was a millionaire by the time he was 35? Do you know how many women flocked to Mark Zuckerberg when he was in his 20s because he was a billionaire by the time he was 23?<br><br>Incels are not failures, we just haven't worked hard enough. We just haven't tried hard enough. It has nothing to do with the system. It has nothing to do with how shitty our lives are. It has nothing to do with how overrepresented women are in top universities. It has nothing to do with how overrepresented women are in top corporations. It has nothing to do with how overrepresented women are in top politics. It has nothing to do with how overrepresented women are in top media. It has nothing to do with how overrepresented women are in top sciences. It has nothing to do with how overrepresented women are in top sports. It has nothing to do with how overrepresented women are in top arts.<br><br>It's all our fault as men. We just aren't trying hard enough. Women could apply to Harvard with a 900 SAT and get in. Men cannot. Women cannot fail at anything because it's just not fair. Men can, and will, inevitably fail.<br><br>Women get celebrated for being successful home makers. Men do not. Women get celebrated for being successful career women. Men do not. Women get celebrated for being successful athletes. Men do not. Women get celebrated for being successful scientists. Men do not. Women get celebrated for being successful artists. Men do not.<br><br>Women get celebrated just for showing up to work on Monday. Men do not.<br><br>It is so fucking hypocritical how women can fail at anything and it will not be reported on the news. It won't make any headlines. The media will not talk about it. But if a woman gets carjacked it will be on every news channel for a week.<br><br>If a woman fails her drivers test it won't make the headlines. But if a woman gets in a car accident it will be on every news channel for a week.<br><br>Women do not have to work hard for anything. Women do not have to try hard for anything. It is just not fair for anything to go wrong for a woman.<br><br>I am fucking sick of this bullshit. I am fucking sick of the hypocrisy. I am fucking sick of how shitty and weak men are portrayed to be every time a woman fails at something. I am fucking sick of the fact that no woman has ever posted on this sub with a problem and said "I've found solution, I'm leaving". I am fucking sick of how women are put on a fucking pedestal every time something bad happens to them.<br><br>We do not need to improve ourselves. Women do not need to improve themselves.