Why do you people hate women

Im sorry but i have to say something. I see a lot of hate in this sub towards women. Im not saying that some of it isnt justified. I just cant see why you cant see the bigger picture. I hate the way our world is setup. Im a white, skinny, short guy. I know im not gonna find a girlfriend because girls dont see me. But why do you hate the people that do see you? Why do you hate women so much? I just dont understand it. I have a friend who hasnt dated in 3 years because he is insecure. He is a nice guy but he just can't see how bad it is out there for guys like him. He cant see it because his friends are the same as him and the only women they see are the ones at work who are married or have boyfriends and dont see them. But we all hate the ones who do see them. Why is this sub so focused on hating the people that you dont want instead of hating the people that are making you feel this way? The reason you are angry is because of women. The reason you are angry is because of the system. Not because of other incels. We arent the problem. Women and the system are the problem.