Losing weight, but getting worse socially
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Losing weight, but getting worse socially<br><br>I've lost a lot of weight, and I've become kinda fit now. Even I can feel the difference when I look in the mirror, I feel proud, but nothing has changed socially. Nobody is giving me a second look. They don't even give me a first look. Even when I was overweight, I had a few people that genuinely cared for me. Even though they didn't want to be friends with me, they still smiled and all whenever they saw me. When I lost weight, they started to ignore me.<br><br>I've been wanting to approach girls, and I've even found a few that I think I like, but I feel like I've got nothing to say. I've messaged them on social media, and they just ignore me. I feel useless. Maybe I'm not good enough, even when I'm fit. I'm kinda getting depressed again. I don't know what else to do. I've been studying a lot, I've been working, I've been maintaining a weight loss, and I've just been better than I was before. I've not been letting myself obsess over girls, but I'm not getting anything in return.<br><br>I'm starting to feel worthless again.<br><br>I feel like I'm doing everything I can, but nothing is getting better socially. What else can I do?
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