Saying "pretty girls don't get lonely or depressed" is just a cop out

Why is it that everyone keeps saying "if she's depressed she's not hot". Or saying "if she's lonely, she's a roastie".<br><br><br>Like how does the fact that she's dumb and insecure justify or make better HER problems and MY problems? <br><br>Why the hell would some random woman's supposed hotness have anything to do with anything? What does it change about the reality of dating for us?<br><br>Like yeah, I get it, the hot ones are the most selfish and shallow, but why does it seem like people just end the conversation at that? What does it change about the fact that dating is rigged? What is IT supposed to change about the fact that I still have to face loneliness?<br><br>Like yeah, I get it, I'm the real victim but why just stop at saying that the pretty people are dumb and shallow?<br><br>Why not talk about how it is that in this society what you look like matters more than your personality? Why not talk about how every relationship is transactional, and if you're poor, ugly or short, you have no social value?<br><br>assume I know everything that's wrong, what's the plan?