I'll never understand this

Why are women so weak in real life? My ex literally came to me in tears after I dumped her. But then as soon as she started dating again and I started isolating, she came to my house and physically assaulted me. But then when I defended myself and slapped her she started crying. I don't understand what the fuck women want. Do you want to be treated like a baby? Do you want to be independent? Make up your fucking minds.