Women who are insecure about their thighs

It’s always great to hear women talk about their insecurities because it’s so deeply ingrained in our culture that sexism is a gendered issue. I’ve had men tell me about their insecurities with no one else particularly caring. I’ve had women come up to me and tell me I’m pretty even if I’m too skinny. I’ve never had a single person tell me I have anything wrong with me. I’ve had men say their wives were searching for men that were taller than them, even if they were !Genetic!lly a little shorter. I’ve never heard a single comment about a man’s legs. People care about our arms and shoulders and our dicks, but no one gives a shit about our thighs. Over the past few years, I’ve been feeling more insecure about my thighs than I ever was as a teen. My thighs are disproportionate to my waist and backside, and it takes me a second to realize they’re mine. I’ve had women I’ve known for a long time come up to me and tell me I look good, I’m too skinny. I’ve had women who are twice my size tell me they’re insecure about their thighs, and I’m telling them they’re beautiful and I wish I had their thighs. I’m not sure how it feels when a man has an insecurity, but !Genetic!lly women have more fat in their thighs than men do. We get most of the sexism, but we also get more variability in our bodies. Most women I’ve met have told me !Genetic!lly women would have more fat in their thighs than men, so !Genetic!lly women’s thighs should be thicker. I’m pretty sure that’s part of why I’m so insecure about my thighs. I have too little fat !Genetic!lly. If I’m a woman and have too little fat in my thighs, that’s not as great as you think, it just makes me look weird. It’s not even about the ratio of fat in our thighs. Men have smaller hips than women, so our thighs shouldn’t be smaller. If we have smaller thighs, then we also have smaller hips. One of my exes told me she didn’t want me because my thighs were too thin. I told her it didn’t matter, I still had a larger waist than she did. She gave me a weird look and called me a creep. I didn’t want to have sex until I was married, but she accused me of being a creep. She moved away from me and I never heard from her again. I’ve been trying to gain muscle mass in my thighs, but my mind always goes to this hypothetical girl who almost started dating me. She was overweight, and eventually she became my friend. Then she started talking about how she didn’t want me because my thighs were too thin. Everyone says I have thin thighs, especially women. I’m tired of it. People come up to me and tell me I’m thin, then they tell me I’m too thin. No one wants me because my thighs are too thin. I’m tired of it. I never have a single woman come up to me and tell me my thighs are too thick. I have women who are clearly larger than me come up to me and tell me my thighs are too thin. I’m tired of it.