Do you ever think that your ideal relationship would be perfect, and that the only problem is the woman?

Quite literally, my relationship with my gf is everything I want, it’s perfect- up to the point that she shows up. <br><br>I have a dog, a cat, a car, a house, a perfect job, and she ruins it all in general… and I’m tired of blaming her, because it’s not her fault. I understand that I should have been more careful when choosing and that I should have been more picky. But I’m already so tired… and I want to find a woman that would fit my ideal relationship, I want to embark on this journey, to find it, but it seems like a dream that everyone has, and that I’ll never achieve it. I feel like I’m settling for any woman, settling down, and I don’t know what to do.