I just found my wife with another man and it hurts.

I just came home and found my wife with another man. I'm currently in my car, balling my eyes out. My heart aches, I can't concentrate. My wife is standing here staring at me right now as I type this. I don't know who else to turn to. I just haven't been the best husband in the past because I've been there for my family. I work a 9-5 job and I'm exhausted everyday and once I'm done with work my body just wants to go home and take a nap so I have not been there for her in that way but lately I've been making time for her even when I'm tired so it hurts that she would still cheat on me. I'm only 22, she's 21, we've been married for less than 2 years. We're still newlyweds, I thought she loved me because she made it seem that way but now I'm not sure. I would do anything for her and there I was wrong. Also, I'm not mad at the other guy because I know she would not cheat if I was doing my job correctly. I'm just hurt that she's doing this. <br><br><br>Update: well, we talked and we're gonna go to therapy and she's gonna break up with him and she's agreed to give me full access to everything and she's gonna do the same so we can trust each other now. Also, she said she's gonna break up with him tomorrow and she's never gonna see him again. She said that she still loves me and would never leave. She said that she was stressed and that she turned to him because she thought that there was a lot of pressure on her shoulders and she wanted to let loose and that she was weak. Also, she's agreed for us to go on a trip together to the beach. I'm gonna take time off work and we're gonna go and I'm gonna make it special. I'm gonna give her the attention and affection that she wants. I'm currently gonna stay with my brother and I'm going to therapy myself to so I can be a better husband cuz I feel like this is my fault but I'm glad that we talked it out and I'm glad that she was willing to listen because I almost thought that she was just gonna leave.