I dont understand how you guys are surprised

Hello. I am a female who has lurked this chamber for the past hour and have read a few articles online about what you guys believe. I am not here to mock you guys or to tell you that you are wrong for believing in this stuff. Im actually kinda worried for you guys. What you are saying about women and how we operate is true for the most part. I dont mean this as an insult, but I think you guys are stuck in a traditional mindset and you are acting as if society is the same as it was 100 years ago, when in reality, society has drifted away from traditional gender roles. I understand you guys have been screwed over by women before, and I am sorry for that, but not every woman is like that. You guys have built a shield around yourselves to the point where it actually hinders your relationships. I dont want to attack you guys for your beliefs, I just want to understand why you are stuck in this mindset. And also I want to make it clear that im not trying to recruit you guys back into society. I am just concerned for you all. Thats all. Thank you for listening to my ramblings.