Light attracts flies, traps attract lions. Advice for the ladies.

The biggest thing men will never tell you is that if you want a boyfriend, a man who will make you proud, you need to be selective with the men you engage with.<br><br>We all know that men approach women a lot. But most of these men are fliers, they’re looking for sex. They might try to make you feel special but they don’t give a shit about you and there are hundreds just like them out there.<br><br>But real men, the ones you want as your boyfriend, they don’t approach random girls like that. They’re looking for something special and they won’t waste their time on just any girl. This is why being easy isn’t enough to guarantee you a good man. In fact, it might even put them off because they think you’ve been with hundreds of fliers before them and are therefore unworthy of their attention<br><br>If you want a good guy you need to make yourself a trap. Traps don’t just attract any animal, they attract the most cunning and skilled ones. They’re more difficult to trigger but they’re more effective and they attract the kind of animal you want as a boyfriend. <br><br>So how do you become a trap? <br><br>Well, first of all you need to stop attracting flies. This means not being easily impressed by any guy who approaches you. It means not smiling at them, not laughing at their jokes, not complementing them on their appearance. You need to make them earn your respect and if they can’t, you ignore them. Don’t send them your number just because they’ve been nice to you. <br><br>Secondly, you need to make them put in the effort to get to you. This means not being an open book. I’m not saying be mysterious and shit but don’t tell them your whole life story. Make them ask questions, communicate with them, make them earn your trust.<br><br>Thirdly, you need to test them. Give them a task or a challenge. See if they can do it. If they fail, you move on. If they succeed, you give them another task. <br><br>Fourthly, you need to play hard to get. Make them think you’re not interested in them. Make them think other guys are after you too. This will make them more determined and more creative in their attempts to win you over. And if they can’t, there are plenty of other traps and there are plenty of flies to go around.