I’m tired of people blaming feminists for everything

I get it. The modern feminist movement is twisted and toxic. Femmies want a war on men. I agree it’s a real issue and I personally acknowledge it as I would any other issue. But it seems like MGTOW get so caught up in their hatred of feminists that they end up blaming feminists for literally everything.<br><br><br><br>Here are some examples:<br><br><br><br>1. “Women are stupid. Women are dumb. Women are dumber than men and they are just bimbos who can’t compete with men and so they create feminism to make men look bad.” It is childish and arrogant to claim that women are dumb and to express that women aren’t smart enough to compete with us men. We all know that that is not true, just like we know that most men are not good with emotions and can be stoic and unfeeling. Women can match men in many areas, such as language and art and social stuff and they can be quick-witted just like men. Many women are smart and brilliant. If I had to take a guess, I would probably say that men and women are equally intelligent but in different ways. So saying that women are stupid shows this kind of insecure need that they can’t compete with us and are like cave men beating their chests and saying, “Hey, I’m smarter than you!!!” It is incredibly laughable. And then they blame feminists??? “See, feminists prove that women are stupid because they want special treatment like free birth control or something.” No, women are smart. They are just ideologically motivated. But I wouldn’t say that all women are feminists, just like I’m not a trad or MGTOW. I am just a guy who doesn’t really care much about gender stuff. I am just stating that women can match men in many areas, so how can you say that women are stupid? You are filled with hate and this kind of perspective is laughable.<br><br><br><br>2. “Women are becoming like men and they are becoming more manly and acting more like men and it is disgusting.” The reason why women are acting more like men are because they get more respect that way. There is this stereotype that women are stupid and shallow and can’t do anything but clean the house and cook and stuff, which seems to be coming from a lot of misogynistic and hateful MGTOWs. I think a lot of the “women are becoming men” issue is coming from the fact that many tradcons and MGTOWs have this outdated view of women that just isn’t true. A lot of people respect men more than women because they think of women as being dumb baby makers. Therefore, women want to break out of that box and be seen as equals. Men get more respect than women because we are seen as breadwinners and strong and independent. So women want to break out of the mold of being a homemaker and be seen as equals. Why is that a bad thing?? Why do you want women to be seen as inferior and dumb and shallow?? <br><br><br><br>3. “Women are promiscuous sluts and are having casual sex and therefore they are not the pure maidens that we need them to be in order to marry and have kids with.” Women are having sex because they are not “pure maidens” anymore. They are not seen as inferior baby makers who are only good for cooking and cleaning and having sex with their husbands. They are seen as equals and they want to be respected and therefore they can be equal and have casual sex just like men do. But I guess it’s better to just shame women for having sex and to call them sluts than to address the issue that women are no longer seen as inferior and are no longer baby makers. This is probably the most prominent one, where MGTOWs are just angry about women having sex and they can’t accept that women can want sex too and that they want to be treated as equals. They just want women to be the perfect little virgin cherries that they can deflower and then marry and have kids with, but they are not stupid anymore, they are equal to us, and they can have sex if they want and we can’t control that.<br><br><br><br>4. “Women are cutting their hair short and they want to be like men.” Women are cutting their hair short because they want to be seen as equals. They want to break out of the mold of being an inferior woman who only serves a man. But once again, many MGTOWs have this outdated view that women are stupid and inferior and that women should never break out of that box. So women cut their hair to show that they are equals and not stupid and shallow and inferior. <br><br><br>It seems like a lot of the blame for feminism is coming from these outdated and traditional views of women. I don’t really see why that is a problem, though. I don’t think that MGTOWs should be like, “Yeah, this is awesome! Women are becoming equals like men!” No, but at least acknowledge that it is a real thing and not some kind of attack on men. I think a lot of MGTOWs have this insecure need that they are better and that they have the right to shame women and stuff. And they are blaming feminists for it. Women are smart and they can compete with men, they can match men in a lot of areas, they are acting more like men because they want to be respected, they are having more sex because they are equals and want to have sex with whoever they want, and they are cutting their hair short because they want to match men and are equals. And I don’t really see why that is a bad thing. <br><br>I really wish that MGTOWs would just acknowledge the issues and not blame feminists for it.