Dude I finally get it now.

I have been lonely for 5-6 years now, and for the first time in my life I now understand what incels mean by focusing on yourself. I finally get it, I was always on the outside looking in wondering why incels/lonely men do the things they do. it makes sense now. I am focusing on my weight and doing sports and creating my own hobbies instead of finding happiness in women. Women are nothing but distractions and they always will be. God bless every one of you who go days, months and years focusing on themselves and God bless those who struggle and give up.