As a woman, I always fantasized of being the other woman and not the wife/girlfriend, because she has it the easiest and I’m right

I’m 29 and have been dating my bf for 3 years. I always fantasized of being the other woman and it’s where I get the most pleasure. I tell my bf he just makes things too easy for me. My ex bf cheated on his wife with me and it was the most pleasurable experience I ever had. <br><br>I want to switch it up more. I want to be the one doing the cheating. I want to have a man just for me and sorta keep him a secret. While he has his irl girlfriend or wife. (I don’t want to be just another woman, I want to be his only side woman)<br><br>I want him to do all the risking to see me. To keep it a secret. To sneak around and come up with lies. I want to be his dirty little secret. I want to be the one calling the shots and telling him when I’m available to see him. I want him to be so in love with me that he’d do all of this for me and never know that I might be doing the same thing. I want to be the one breaking the rules<br><br>I tell my bf that, and he just says ok, and doesn’t really care<br><br>Does anyone else fantasize of this? Or am I a bad person<br><br>Edit: holy cow! This got a lot more traction than I thought it would. I also see a lot of hate. Lol, I just posted this for fun. I don’t actually do this. I just have this fantasy and sometimes my bf and I playact it in our own ways, as it’s consensual. Thanks for all the feedback.