What is one thing you wish women knew about men?

I’ll go first. I wish women knew we’ll never be okay with being called fat. I’ve literally had women tell me I’m unattractive because I’m skinny but I wish I could tell them I was 380lbs when I was 22 years old and that’s why I work out so much. Yes I still have a belly, and yes I will still have a belly in my mid 30s and beyond. I’m required to be skinny at work, I don’t eat, I am a work out addict, there’s nothing else I can do to make myself more attractive because the obsession with abs isn’t going away.