I am a blackpill and this sub needs to stop making fun of men who have no social status

This sub constantly makes fun of men who have no social status, yet, are not incels. I am a 19M who is attractive and I am surrounded by attractive women who love me. However, my father has a lot of social status, and I would say I am a lot more attractive than him. He has been making me feel terrible about myself my whole life, and I just realized why. He has always been a short, balding man who was never with a woman he actually wanted. He was never the first choice of a woman in his life, and it really bothers me that I have never been the second choice. I am just so confused.