Why don’t women want to ‘date’ after a split?

When I say date I mean start bringing a guy home, taking him out etc. And they always have kids and how if you only date a guy for a few months ‘it’s not fair for the kids to lose a friend (dad) after a year, so I need to wait until I know you better’. <br><br>That’s your decision not mine if you don’t want to introduce me to your kid….<br><br>But they say ‘I’m just not ready to date’… <br><br>You’re already bringing a guy home. You’re just not ready to share your sex life with anyone else… you’re still getting what YOU want. It’s just you don’t want me to see anyone else, but I should wait until YOU are ready to let me…<br><br>What is up with these women who want you to wait for them but will go ahead and get what they want?