Not being a good father is actually good for my future family.

Being a good father is one of the most important things you can do for your children, but I believe that not being a good father is the best thing for my future family. If I am a good father, I will have to do all of the parenting by myself, and that means that I would be sacrificing my own happiness for my children. That is not what a good father should do. Instead, I want my future wife to be the best mother she can be, so I can be the best husband I can be. That means I will do what is necessary to make her a great parent.