Would you be willing to do a non-binary marriage with someone?

For context I was married really young to a guy, could not really relate with him because of my gender identity. I do not consider myself a woman but since he was a straight person really into the traditional gender roles I was forced to do really feminine things that I did not want to do and he had to do really masculine things that he did not want to do but since he was a man it was his way of showing he really cared about me. We divorced after some time, I did not feel any connection with him because of how he would not understand my gender identity, I did not feel like a woman but yet he would call me a woman and try to make me do women things that I had no interest in.<br>I would be willing to date a non-binary person only, I have a lot of trauma about being forced to be straight and feeling like I am not a woman, I have issues with intimacy related to my gender identity and the lack of understanding of the other gender, I am not looking for a woman or a man, I am looking for a person who is gender neutral like me.<br>Please share your thoughts on this subject.