If you can do something to better yourself, do it 100%

I met a guy on my first day of college, back in 2014. He's a little overweight, not the most conventionally attractive guy, but I've never meant a guy in my life who has so much positive energy in him. He's always friendly to everyone he meets; he has a very good sense of humor; and he's not afraid to be himself. <br><br>He's obviously not the most conventionally attractive guy, but he's had a few girlfriends since we met back in 2014, he even had a few one night stands, he's able to easily talk to girls he finds hot, he has had a lot of success romantically, and I couldn't be happier for him. <br><br>Back in 2017, I was talking to him and he told me that in high school, he was afraid to approach girls, especially if he liked them. He told me that he had to stop himself from being a pussy because he realized that if he didn't, he would never be with a girl he liked. He started going to the gym to improve his confidence and lose weight. He approached girls he liked, he put himself out there in every way he could.<br><br>He's an extremely confident guy who puts himself out there and isn't afraid to be rejected. He went to a party last night, he met a girl there, she asked him for his snapchat because she liked him and he's going to meet up with her tomorrow. <br><br>This is what you have to be like if you want better yourself and have more confidence. What's the worst that can happen? You fail and try again. What's the best that can happen? You'll be with someone you love and who loves you, you'll have more confidence, you'll have a better life.