"Anti-trans feminists" gave my english teacher a hard on and now I'm upset with feminism.

So I was browsing r/TwoXChromosomes and saw a post about "anti-trans feminists" and what the actual fuck is that? Being a feminist isn't about hating men, at least that's what we're taught. It's supposed to be about hating patriarchy. I'm a man and I hate being a man so I think like, I'm a feminist.<br><br>I usually don't really like going into r/TwoXChromosomes because they never have any real content, the website is a fucking echo chamber. However, I don't really have any other place to talk about this, so I'm here.<br><br>What is femcel culture? I don't even understand it. To explain, femcel is short for female incel. The people who call themselves femcel are women who are angry at not being able to find a man, so they act like incels on the internet. They're not losing anything, they're gaining something. The people who travel to Thailand to get sexy ladyboys to fuck with them are mostly from wealthy countries. What do they have to lose? It's all about what they can't have. And funnily enough, most incels don't really talk about the women they can't have. They talk about the loss of their masculinity. Their pride, their posturing, their purpose for living.<br><br>They were born to fight and die. And this is where this post is going to branch off. I'm going to bring up the war in Ukraine. The army is a place where patriarchy lives and thrives. Men go to war to die for their countries, women stay to take care of the children. So now that the russians are coming, the men are being forced to the front lines, and the women are being forced away. This is where I want to ask, what about the men who don't want to die? What about the men who are running away from the war? What about those who don't want to fight?<br><br>I've seen a lot of videos of russian men who were conscripted and sent straight to the front lines. These men are given barely any training and then they are sent off to fight. Lots of them don't come back. What about their purpose for living? What about their masculinity? What about the ones who refuse to enlist? If they didn't have anything to lose, they definitely do now. They're criminals, they're outcasts, they are not men.<br><br>What about the "anti-trans feminists"? The women who are angry at the trans people for trying to be something they're not. The "anti-trans feminists" have given my english teacher a hard on. He talks about how americans are trying to destroy polish culture and society by teaching feminism and gender studies in schools. He talks about how trans people are fucking up the system and how they are reckless and how they are trying to destroy his life's work. He's an old man and he's proud of being polish. He's proud of his culture and heritage, he's proud of his masculinity. He's proud of the relegion that he was taught. He's proud to be a man.<br><br>The "anti-trans feminists" have given my english teacher a hard on. Never mind that he's always flirting with the young girls in his class, never mind that he keeps talking about how polish men are the best in the world. He's proud of his masculinity, he's proud of his nationality, he's proud of his religion. And he's proud to be a man. What about the men who don't want to be men? What about the ones who are trapped? What about the ones who are angry? What about the men who don't want to fight? What about the men who don't want to die?