If you get into an argument with an incel, you can break him down into a sad, pathetic man by saying the right things to him. Here's how.

Incels, by definition, are people who are miserable with their sex lives, or lack thereof, to an extent that they have made an entire community, even a lifestyle around it. You would think that this would be the extent of the bitterness, but no, these people have other reasons to be bitter as well, which is that they believe that women find the Chads of the world attractive, and think that they deserve to date these Chads. Of course, not all incels are this way, but a lot of them are. These incels can be broken down by saying the following to them: <br><br>1. The Chads have existed for a long time, even in the past, where the definition of a Chad was different, and exist in every possible scenario. (let me emphasize this, *every single scenario*) so it's not possible for one or a small set of people to be the ones who are the preferred sexual partners of the majority of women, which is what these incels claim. (for example: chads in ancient Greece, chads in the 70s, chads in Asia, chads in Latin America, chads in the countryside, chads in the military, chads in prison, etc)<br><br>2. Women don't find these characters attractive, they just find the people who play them as attractive. this may sound strange, but the reason women love the chad characters and not the actual chads is because they are just a portrayal of what women want, and they wish they could meet one of these characters, but know that this will never happen, so they have to settle for watching their favorite TV show, which in a way makes the experience better. it's like buying a car vs. buying a scale model replica of the car. sure the scale model replica is nice and can be enjoyable, but it can't go as fast, look as good, or feel as comfortable as the actual car, and that is all that most people are going to need. the same goes with the TV chad. <br><br>3. most women don't care if you're strong, athletic, rich, good looking, etc, as long as you're a decent person, and have good hygiene, you can out compete most chads at the dating pool. this is because most women are not looking for someone to have sex with all the time, most women want someone they can share their lives with, which is why they don't go after the chads, they go after the nice guys, who will give them a good life, but not a lot of sex.<br><br>4. you can make yourself look like a chad, by acting like one, dressing like one, and being a good person. there's plenty of "normal looking" men who act like the typical chad and have tons of sex and girlfriend. most women don't find "nerds" unattractive, women just don't understand them, so they don't know how to approach them, which is why they find the chads instead. (Note: this is the biggest problem, most women don't know how to approach "nerds" because of their own insecurities)<br><br>5. You can tell if a person is going to be a chad, or not, by their personality. you can be a chad by being a good person. you can't be a chad if you're an asshole. <br><br>6. There are plenty of stories about women f**king incels. it's not possible for all women to find all incels unattractive. sure they might not find your specific brand of inceldom attractive, but that doesn't mean that no woman will find you attractive. <br><br>7. incels will often claim that women only find the chads attractive because of some social contract, but there are plenty of examples of women who have never seen a "chad" in person f**king chads. this is because the media is showing us what women want in bed, but they're not showing us the entire story. <br><br>8. it's easy to get into a relationship with a woman, but it's much harder to get out. many chads are in "dead bedroom" type relationships, where the woman will never cheat on the man, but won't f**k him either, because she just doesn't find him attractive anymore, but still wants to be with him because of the good times they had together.