What do incels want from the world ?

I am an incel myself, but will do my best to stay objective and just state the reality. Certainly not going to defend anyone here.<br><br>Incels want <br><br>Dating - despite being often mocked and shamed for their anxieties or their appearance, incels want to be liked for who they are. Or at least they want a chance to be liked (or not) but without being discriminated and judged beforehand. <br><br>Only romantic and emotional companionship. Meaning, we'd like to be loved for who we are beyond physical intimacy. Which is pretty much what everyone wants in this world. We don't want sex robots. We don't want to be filled like a gas tank and used for the pleasure of someone. We want intimacy, a connection with someone. <br><br>So, what do we actually want ? <br><br>Not to be judged by society solely based on our appearance. We want to be judged for who we are, and not be mocked beforehand. <br><br>But, it's not the will of incels to change society and its norms. Because humans are animals, and by will of nature, we get judged on appearance. We judge a woman for her beauty and a man for his physical strength. This is how humans work. And nobody can change that. But, we want to be judged by the beauty of our soul, just like we judge women (or men) for their beauty. <br><br>We are still people. We are part of society. We have feelings like everyone else, and we are also worthy of respect, whatever others might think of us. We don't want to be mocked for our feelings, or rejected because of our appearance only. <br><br>We are still people, and we deserve to be loved, to have a family or children, or whatever we want. But, we still acknowledge that incels are primarily men. Meaning, we still believe that the responsibility of changing the world is in our hands. We cannot force others to love us. We cannot force others to be attracted to us. We cannot force others to accept us. All we can do is to improve ourselves, be the best version of ourselves possible, and hope to be accepted by the beauty of our soul. <br><br>Because, we still believe that we are part of society, and this is our responsibility. Certainly, it's not our fault to be incel, because it's not by will that we are incel, and it's not possible to change our situation. But, it's our will to change society and to make things happen. <br><br>Finally, incels want to be respected, and to be loved by society. I think that every man wants this. They want their beauty to be acknowledged. They want their feelings and emotions to be respected. They want to be accepted in society. They want to have a family and companionship. But, once again, it's our responsibility to achieve that.