The worst part about being an attractive woman isn't the constant hit on by creeps

I'm not sure if this is the pill many men here imagine women having, but it's not "oh hey here are a bunch of hot women and they never get hit on because they're too smart and too good looking and have perfect bodies and are successful and just do whatever they want and don't have any problems because they're attractive" it's more like "here's a bunch of attractive women, and here's all the bullshit that goes along with it. Here are the strangers hitting on you at a bar, and on the bus, and at work, and in your car. Here are the comments about your body. Here are the strangers you meet who want to show you their dick. Here are the people who don't know you and want you to like them because you're hot. Here are the people who want to fuck you because you're hot, and they don't care if you want to or not, because they already know they're going to get it anyway. Here are the people who don't like you because you're hot and they think you're a bitch or a whore or something. Here are the people who don't know what "no' means because they're men and you're attractive. Here are all the people who want you to do things because you're pretty, but they don't actually like you or care if you have anything to say about it. Here are the people who want to fuck you because they are entitled to you because you're attractive."<br><br>It's exhausting.<br><br>And yes, there are rewards. And yes, it can be fun.<br><br>But the biggest drawback of being attractive isn't how many men want you, it's how many men you have to deal with who don't actually want you, or respect you, or care if you even exist outside of what they can get from you.<br><br>It's not fun being hit on by men who don't stand a chance, or being catcalled, or having men who don't know you send you nudes, or being told what to do by men who don't know the first thing about you. And it's not fun dealing with the men who don't like you because you're attractive, who don't like you because you're a woman, or because you're assertive, or because you say no, or because they think you're a bitch or a whore.<br><br>It's not fun dealing with all the men who don't respect you, or care if you exist.<br><br>I would trade all the hits and comments and compliments and dates and relationships and marriage and children for a day where I could just go about my business without being hit on or catcalled or bothered by a single man. And I'm sure I'm not alone.