I told my pregnant wife to either let me adopt my soon to be born child or get an abortion.

I (M38) lost a child in 2015 due to a miscarriage. My wife (F28) and I have been trying for the past 8 years to have a child, but it sometimes feels like even the heavens are against us.<br><br>Two months ago, I received some news that shook me to my core. My wife was pregnant, but not with my child. I was devastated as I thought that our marriage was happy and fulfilling, only to discover that my wife had been cheating on me with an old friend of mine.<br><br>I was heartbroken and even considered ending my life. But after a lot of contemplation and introspection, I came to the realization that I couldn't give up on life. I deserved to be happy, and I had to continue living for myself.<br><br>I approached my wife and told her that I would let her continue the pregnancy, but only if she agreed to let me adopt the child as my own. If she refused, I would file for divorce and move on with my life.<br><br>My wife is torn between her love for me and her desire to raise her child. She wants to stay in the marriage, but she's hesitant about giving up her parental rights. I'm determined to go through with this, no matter the outcome.<br><br>I (M38) told my pregnant wife (F28) to either let me adopt my soon to be born child or get an abortion.#####I (M38) lost a child in 2015 due to a miscarriage. My wife (F28) and I have been trying for the past 8 years to have a child, but it sometimes feels like even the heavens are against us.<br><br>Two months ago, I received some news that shook me to my core. My wife was pregnant, but not with my child. I was devastated as I thought that our marriage was happy and fulfilling, only to discover that my wife had been cheating on me with an old friend of mine.<br><br>I was heartbroken and even considered ending my life. But after a lot of contemplation and introspection, I came to the realization that I couldn't give up on life. I deserved to be happy, and I had to continue living for myself.<br><br>I approached my wife and told her that I would let her continue the pregnancy, but only if she agreed to let me adopt the child as my own. If she refused, I would file for divorce and move on with my life.<br><br>My wife is torn between her love for me and her desire to raise her child. She wants to stay in the marriage, but she's hesitant about giving up her parental rights. I'm determined to go through with this, no matter the outcome.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>EDIT: I apologize for the formatting as I am on mobile. I'll get around to reformatting it once I have access to a computer.