New Chambers user here. My girlfriend told me she loves me to keep being a fat blob

I'm 5'8 and 180ish pounds irl. I've always fooled myself into thinking I was going to be in top shape and have a chiselled body like 6 pack abs etc after going to the gym for several years. Eventually I came to my senses, and after being disappointed by my progress for so long and seeing how hard it is to stick to the routine I decided to give up on it. I've come to an understanding with my body, and I've fooled myself into thinking I'm happy with how I am. However, my lack of self-confidence really shines through anytime I meet a new person, whether it's at uni or party etc and my girlfriend is always there to praise me and make me feel better. She also knows how to make me feel better, and anytime I get down she'll tell me how much she loves me and she'll whisper how she wants me to keep being chubby, and how she loves a chubby man:)! How do you guys make your bois feel good? I want to know and I'm so jealous lol