I (28F) found out my fiancé (35M) is experiencing a pregnancy scare with his coworker. Our wedding is set for May and I have no idea what to do now that I know.

I just turned 28, so I’m still reeling. We’ve been together for about 4 years now and got engaged last year. Everything seemed normal up until about two days ago when I saw a text on my fiancé’s phone. The girl was saying that she was pregnant with his child and needed him to send her money to pay for the abortion. <br><br>At first, I thought that this was a hilarious meme; I mean this is how I met my own father after all. But I digress. <br><br>I asked my partner and he was frantic with trying to get proof that the child was his after sending her money to get the abortion but, lo and behold, he finally admitted to me that he did in fact engage in sexual activities with her. <br><br>He also told me that he has no idea if the baby is really his and that she was sleeping with other men at the same time. <br><br>I was stunned. We don’t have any honeymoon planned for after the wedding yet because we were waiting to see what my student loan situation will be after graduating in December with my masters degree. But, he had plans to go to Thailand with this girl over my spring break; the trip was already fully paid for and everything. <br><br>He swears up and down that they were never physically intimate at work and that he never loved her and that I’m his world. But, that he was just feeling sexually unfulfilled because of issues that I was having with pain during intercourse. I’m being treated and the pain has slowly subsided over the past few months. <br><br>He is insisting that we shouldn’t cancel the wedding yet until it’s confirmed that the baby is his. And, if it is his that we should still go on with the wedding out of respect for our families who have already put money and effort into the arrangements.<br><br>What do I do?