I took a shit on my cabinets on purpose after my boyfriend moved out

So a little backstory, I am a young woman and right out of high school I moved into my dad’s old house, it’s a cute little house and right on the lake so I was stoked we were all stoked. Eventually my boyfriend moved in and everything was peachy (and I thought we were going to get married) well I wasn’t the best housekeeper and he kept after me about it so I did the only thing I could to get him off my case... I started getting pissed off that I was the woman and I had to do all the cleaning so I rebelled and I didn’t let him know I was doing it but when I knew he was coming home I’d hide trash all around the house, spit in his food, I did a lot of things and when he finally decided to leave I took 3 laxatives and I pissed all over the cabinets he’d complain about the most and right behind the trash cans. I was young and I knew it was wrong but for the first week or two I felt pretty good, we’ve lived there for 8 years now and I finally had to rip them out because of the 3 inch hole there was above the sink from all the pissed off I’d left. I just thought I’d share my story since I reminisced about it. I’ve grown up a lot since then and I’m currently expecting my first child.