AITA for wanting to cancel our wedding after my husband told me to "shut up" when I inquired about where we were going for our honeymoon?

I(f24) and my husband(a28) have been together for 5 years and got engaged 10 months ago. We have a relatively well off family, and after asking our parents, we found out we got the same college scholarship. It means that our parents paid nothing for our college, and we have the funds to travel for our honeymoon. <br><br>I planned our wedding, since my husband said he has "no interest" in planning the wedding. <br><br>We got into an argument today when I was looking at destinations for our honeymoon, since my husband has really good connections with some travel companies. I asked him to take me out to lunch so I could show him the options for the honeymoon. <br><br>When we got there, he told the waiter we would be in in 15 minutes. That was 30 minutes ago. I went to Google Maps and found our car outside a gas station 10 miles away from where we said we'd meet. I asked him where we were going, and he told me "stop yelling and stop asking questions. Just shut up". I asked him what he was talking about, and he repeated for me to shut up. I started walking back towards the door, and he told me I was overreacting. He said that I don't need to "know everything about everything" and I should stop being so difficult. I told him that was an insane thing to say, and he hit me hard enough that I choked.<br><br>I'm now home crying, and my mom told me she agrees with my husband and that I should stop being so difficult. I think it's fair to call off the wedding, and I'm thinking about moving to another state. I'm pretty confused as to how I'm supposed to act.