I'm not going to hug my boyfriend's sister at Christmas.

I'm not a hugger. I never have been. I don't hug my brothers, I don't hug my sister, I do hug my parents, but it's always been like that. I'm just not one for physical affection or touching. <br><br>I've been with my bf for about 6 months, and everything is going well. I haven't met his parents yet, but I've met his sister, just briefly, and she gave me a hug. I was a bit weirded out, but didn't say anything, I just took it as her being a hugger. <br><br>She's coming to visit for Christmas, and I asked bf if she was going to be giving another hug, and he said that yes, she's a big hugger. I said that I'm not, and I won't be hugging her back. <br><br>He said that I should try to be more open to hugging, and maybe I just haven't found the right person to hug. Honestly, it kind of pissed me off that he told me to basically change my ways, and that I just haven't found the right person to hug. <br><br>Anyways, I was telling my friend this, and she said that I'm being a bitch for not hugging her. Which then got me thinking, am I? Should I just suck it up? <br><br>I just personally don't like being touched very much, and I don't see anything wrong with that. I'm not going to go out of my way to hug someone just because it's Christmas.