I'm a woman and I'm concerned about the future of women. I've never been more ashamed of my sex.

I'm a 30 year old single woman, with a full time job and a degree. I take full responsibility for my actions and I don't blame men for my problems. I don't want to generalize and I know not all men are like this, but I've never seen so many immature and narcissistic men in my life.<br><br>A few years ago, when I started dating, I met a 25 year old "guy" that I will call B. for the sake of the story. To make it short, he was immature as hell. He has never had a job and is living with his mother. He dropped out of college because his mother was feeding him and he didn't have to pay rent, so he thought there was no reason to find a job. When we first met, he had a childish and naive vibe, I thought he was cute, but as soon as I started talking to him, I realized what a selfish, immature and lazy slob he was. He told me that he spends most of his days playing video games and watching porn. He has never had a girlfriend in his life and is still a virgin. He is short and skinny, but he truly believes that he is some kind of hot alpha male that can have any woman he wants. When we met, he asked me to send him some nudes, but I declined. Then he started sending me pictures of his dick and told me that I should send him some nudes as well, because, as he said, I am a woman and it's my duty to please him with my body. I was disgusted and I unfollowed him everywhere. One year later, I found out that he got a 22 years old naive girl pregnant. She didn't know anything about his past and he told her that she is the love of his life and that he would do anything for her and their child. He is still living with his mother and still unemployed, so of course the child's mother is working two jobs to provide for them. I felt so bad for her, because I knew what kind of useless person he is. Shortly after they moved in together, he started cheating on her with several women. He even had a one night stand with someRandom older married woman ffs. His child's mother was devasted and I felt so bad for her. They still live together and he still cheats on her. She tolerates his behavior, because she doesn't want her son to grow up in a broken home. I can't describe how furious I am. B has the mentality of a 14 years old boy, still lives with his mother, spends most of his time playing video games and still thinks that he is some kind of hot bad boy. And he has a child with a good woman. I can't believe how many immature and useless men are out there.<br><br>I also have to mention that a few years ago, when I was still in college, I met this guy called A. He was 28 at the time, chosen by my mother to be my prom date. He had a good career and he was respected in his field. He was a very shy guy and I thought he was cute. We started dating and we were in a relationship for a year. Shortly after we started dating, I found out that he had no friends and that he was spending most of his free time alone. We would go out together, but he would decline any social invitation with my friends or other people. We were each other's company 24/7. I thought that maybe he was just introverted, but I started noticing other weird things about him. He didn't know how to cook at all, he couldn't do any chores and he couldn't fix anything. He was calling his mother to help him with everything and I felt like I was dating a 16 years old boy, not a grown man. He didn't know anything about art, literature, history or any other subject. He was so ignorant and immature and I couldn't tolerate him anymore. I broke up with him and he started stalking me. Shortly after we broke up, he started dating a 19 years old girl. 4 years later, they are still together. She is naive and young, so she tolerates his behavior. I felt very bad for her, because I know what kind of immature man he is.<br><br>Another thing that I want to mention is that I have a friend who has been dating this 40 years old single father for 5 years. He is a very shy and immature man who works from home. He is a good person, but very childish. He is still a virgin and has never been in a relationship before. My friend is very patient and she is teaching him everything. She is 28 and she would like to settle down and have some children, but he is not ready. He told her that maybe in 2-3 years, but she is afraid that she is going to be too old at that time. I advised her to move on with her life, but she is afraid that she is going to be alone forever and that she will miss her chance of being a mother.<br><br>What the hell is going on with this world? I have never seen so many immature men in my entire life. They are all so narcissistic and selfish. I'm sincerely worried about the future of women.