Why do i always attract the wrong people.

Hi i am 18 and i am bi. But the only girls that i attract online are the kind who is an令 enemy我 love nemy type i once had a girl who would tell me she wanted to "fuck me up". Then she would tell me she loved me, it bugged me and would screw with my head. I like the average girl you see who just want to have fun have good vibes but somehow i am not attracted to them and they are not attracted to me. I don't really want to be in a relationship with anyone at this time, but why am i attracting the same vibes ?