And the women who love us

For a long time, I hated being a guy.<br><br>In high school, I was chubby and socially awkward, and it felt like I was always the loser.<br><br>I thought that I was unattractive to girls.<br><br>But that was not true.<br><br>There was one girl in particular in my high school class who was the first girl that I thought was really attractive. She was also chubby, and tall, and had long blonde hair and a big smile, and was very kind and had a big personality that drew a lot of people to her. She was beautiful, and I think that she's part of the reason that I've never been drawn to thin women.<br><br>I did not talk to her very much when I was in high school. Despite our shared awkwardness and my attractions to her, I was terrified to talk to her. I think that I said one or two sentences to her over the course of four years.<br><br>It was not until we had both finished college and were back in town for Christmas that I got to know her a bit better. We met up for lunch, and we talked for hours. I showed her some of my art, and we talked about our shared favorite books and movies and TV shows and how we saw ourselves and our places in the world. She was amazing, and beautiful, and I fell in love with her.<br><br>We dated for two years, and it was the happiest I had ever been. She was my first real relationship, and she showed me that I was not unattractive, that there was at least one woman who thought I was handsome and wanted to be with me.<br><br>She was my first kiss, first blowjob, first time having sex. She was my first love.<br><br>A month or so after we broke up, I came into this sub for the first time. It was a great surprise to find that there were other men like me, who loved women with curves, and who were attracted to them and thought they were beautiful. It was a great comfort to me.<br><br>I've been reading the sub for a couple of years now, and it's been really helpful in making me feel like I'm not alone. I've thought about posting here a few times, but I'm not very confident. I decided to post now, though, because I wanted to acknowledge that there are women out there who are attracted to chubby men as well.<br><br>I recently met a new woman, and we've been dating for a few months now. She's very pretty, and smart, and has a great personality, and she's chubby. She says that she likes me because I'm tall and have a lot of hair and a beard, and she thinks my belly is cute.<br><br>I've been very happy with her so far, and I think that this sub has helped me to see myself in a different way, to be more confident, and to more fully appreciate women who are attracted to me.<br><br>I hope I'm not breaking any rules by talking about my relationships here, I just wanted to acknowledge this sub for helping me to feel more confident in my appearance, and to acknowledge the women who date us chubby guys.<br><br>Edit: Thanks for the rewards and the kind comments, everyone. Keep on lovin'