Can we stop associating white nationalism with neo nazism?

I am white and I love my people, heritage, and I think European countries and the US should prioritize whites but I don’t think we should kill all non-whites or anything like that, I believe in equality. I am not a neo nazi or racist, I am just a white nationalist and I hate how people just automatically think I am racist or hateful towards other cultures. I love my people and want them to thrive, I’m my own person.