Are people who say men are more upset about divorce because we were happy in marriage?

Numorous sources have already established that women are more prone to initiate divorce, so that would only make sense. I recently went through a divorce, and its fucking bullshit. My ex wanted out of a marriage and cut off access to our children. I on the other hand was happy with my life, but she was not. It's no wonder that men off themselves at a higher rate after divorce.