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CharlieCharlieCharlieCharlieCharlie<br><br>Edit: Throwaway account for obvious reasons<br><br>My 30(F) husband 31(M) has been seeing a woman he used to go to school with. I found out he’s been taking her out and then claimed he was working late. We’ve been arguing a lot lately and he says he doesn’t love me anymore. I’m devastated as I thought our relationship was solid. I was in shock for a while and then I thought maybe I could get him back. I messaged his ex and made friends with her. She says she’s really interested in getting back with him. <br><br>I’ve started leaving their messages together where he can see them. I’ve stopped trying to look after myself and have put on a lot of weight. If he wants to leave me then he will. But I want him to see what he’s losing. She’s gorgeous and has a great figure. Sometimes when he looks at me I can see him comparing us. I have really started to feel like I’m winning. And she will be the one left heartbroken. <br><br>But I still love him so much. It hurts so much when I see him looking at me in disgust. Do I just leave it and accept that he’s gone? He’s from a big Irish family and they would never approved of a divorce. He says he will not leave me because of our kids. I can’t bear to be around him anymore. What do I do?