Just had a guy say I'm a loser for being a 25 year old virgin without a relationship

Context: I was getting my hair cut and a haircut next to me had a girl with him. He was with a girl and holding her hand. Girl cutters started talking to him and asking him when his birthday is and stuff. Then they asked me the same. I said I'm 25 as well. Then the girl with him asked what I do for work and the haircutter (girl) said I'm in school and going to be a doctor in 4 years. The guy said oh that's nice. I noticed he was pretty much flaunting that he had a girl. <br><br>The girl asked me how's it going with girls? I said I'm single and I don't need a relationship to be happy. I said I'm a regular guy and don't make 100k a year and can't go to the gym. Then he said oh you're one of those losers who won't have a relationship until you're 35 and 40. I said I don't care. I said I get what I want done in a day and I don't need to spend my time pleasing some woman. Then he said I'm a loser for being a 25 year old virgin. Then I said being a virgin is not a big deal to me. I'm working on my two degrees, work part time, cook and do all my own stuff. I said I have no need for a relationship and I'm happy for you that you have a relationship but I can live without it. Then he said I'm a jerk for not giving any woman a chance. I said I have gone on dates and nothing ever comes out of it and I'm not here to please women. Then they laughed and the girl said "well you're in school for 8 years, that's pretty sad you can't get a girlfriend" and I said well I don't really care. I don't go out to bars to find women like you do. I don't go to the gym to get women. I'm not here to please a woman as part of my goals. I said I have two degrees I'm working on, a part time job, a house I own and I do all my own stuff and I said being in a relationship is not a goal of mine. Then he said maybe you're born this way and I said maybe you're born this way and I'm not and the hairdresser said stop arguing with them I said I'm not arguing. Then they left and the haircutter said sorry about that, I said it's no big deal. She said that guy always brings a girl with him in here and she said he had another girl a few months ago that she recognized. Then she said he's like 30. Then I said there's no need to spend most of your time trying to please women. I said I get everything I want done and I can live without a woman. Then she said that guy was trying to make you feel bad for being single when he's the one that's insecure.