My current take on blackpill

I used to believe everything about blackpill. But as i searched deeper i realized its not the only way to interpret the world around us regarding dating. It is very possible that human behavior can be anthropologically interpreted in many ways other than sexual dominance and hypergamy.<br><br>Recently i am more into the idea of a strong hold of culture on modern society. In my country it is a common sense for a woman to marry at the age of 30 years old, but why? Mostly because it is a very unhealthy decision for her to marry before she is financially independent. But women are not marrying men at 30 who are also financially independent. Why? Because when they get to that age they are not triggered anymore by the idea that women have been promiscuous, and they are not looking at human behavior through the lens of sexual attraction and dominance. They are not obsessed with dating and sex anymore. They are more mature to look at other things in life and they have other priorities.<br><br>They marry because now they are more mature and they have other priorities in life. Sex is not anymore the only priority. They reached a level of maturity that social pressure has no effect on them anymore.<br><br>From my point of view, people who are obsessed with sex, are mostly those who are young and immature, and who have not yet reached that level of maturity. And who are these people? Men and women. It just coincides with the time period when people are obsessed with sex, and the time period when we get more mature in life. It just has to do with the level of maturity.<br><br>People who talk about hypergamy the most are usually those who are obsessed with sex. Why? Because they are young and immature in mind and they are obsessed with how to get a woman to go to bed with them. They are obsessed with sex so much that they only see human behavior through the lens of sexual attraction and dominance, because that is what they are obsessed with.<br><br>I am not saying that sexual attraction and dominance has no role in human behavior and dating. I am saying that there are other aspects of human behavior, other than sexual attraction, that have a much bigger role in dating and relationships than we think.<br><br>One of those things is marriage. Marriage gives a sense of stability. It is a very smart decision for a woman to marry a man who is financially stable, and the reason is not that he is selected based on attraction to his genetic makeup, It is a smart decision because marriage is a legally binding contract that gives financial stability to the women. The reason why young men cannot compete with older men for marriage is not because of their genetic makeup, it is because younger men cannot give the same level of financial stability as older men.<br><br>Women are obsessed with marriage as much as men. They talk about marriage the most. Why? Because they look at human behavior through the lens of financial stability that marriage gives. For them it is not about the weather the guy is attractive or not. Attraction plays a role, but a very small role compared to financial stability.<br><br>I have seen many women who are obsessed with marriage. But when the guy proposed to them, they are shocked because now they have to make up their mind and give an answer. They are shocked because now they have to decide weather the guy is financially stable enough for them, and they have to say yes to him. And suddenly they are not obsessed with marriage anymore and they are not sure about their decision. Why? Because now they are mature enough to see marriage as something that can only be successful if both partners are financially stable and not because of sexual attraction or dominance.<br><br>If you assume women are obsessed with marriage because of their hypergamous nature, and that they look at human behavior through the lens of sexual attraction and dominance, and that they are looking at men based on their genetic makeup, you will be surprised when a woman suddenly rejects a proposal from a guy who is very attractive and has a high social standing.<br><br>Actually, no one is looking at human behavior based only on the level of attraction and dominance. We are all obsessed with marriage because we look at human behavior through the lens of the stability that marriage gives. When it comes to marriage, everyone sees human behavior through the lens of financial stability, both men and women. This obsession with marriage is not because of the level of attraction and dominance. It is because of the level of stability that marriage gives. No one looks at human behavior based on only one aspect of it. Each person looks at human behavior based on the aspects of it that are more important to them.<br><br>The reason why i am on r/blackpill is that this is my only platform to talk about the same thing. I have found this community to talk about the same thing, even if they have a different perspective on it.<br><br>I have been single for three months and have been talking to women. I am getting a lot of attention from women but i am not interested in any of them. It is mostly because of the age, and maturity. They are all young and immature in mind. I am not looking at human behavior based on the level of attraction and dominance. I am not obsessed with sex anymore and i am not looking at human behavior through the lens of sexual attraction and dominance. I have reached a level of maturity that i am not obsessed with sex anymore. I am getting a lot of attention from women but i am not interested in any of them. Most of the time i am bored with them. They are all obsessed with relationships, love, and marriage. I am not obsessed with these things anymore. I am not looking at human behavior based on attraction and dominance anymore. <br><br>PS: i am not saying that blackpill is not real. I am saying that animal behavior is only one aspect of human behavior, and not the only interpretation of it.