Why do I feel like anytime a man shows any kind of humility, like not being good at something or not knowing something, it’s seen as unattractive?

I finally came to the conclusion that I think TikTok and the media created this whole narrative that showing a man can be vulnerable is a sign of weakness. I’ve been in two relationships already that when they get to know me more, they start to belittle me or get bored that I’m not the “stereotypical man”.