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I (28F) walked in on my fiance (30M) coming home from work with a naked sextant (18M) in the house

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Throwaway account. My name has been changed to protect the innocent.<br><br>I (28F) am in a 4 year relationship with my soon to be husband, Gary. We have been planning our wedding for this spring. My Gary is every good thing one could want in a man: he is smart as all get out, kind to the smallest and biggest creatures, generous in ways that other people can't imagine, and generally is the best person in the world. Gary is a dentist and not too long ago was able to open his own dental practice. It's small, but he's working on it.<br><br>Two months ago, Gary hired an sextant. I'll call Kyle the sextant. Kyle was a high school student in need of a job to get some extra money for college. This was his first ever job and one he desperately needed to afford to go to college. Kyle worked three days a week as a sextant and he did ok. Gary is always a patient and understanding boss and mentor, so he was very happy to help Kyle. Kyle worked three days a week in the practice and was doing the job to the best of his ability.<br><br>A week ago, I was out running errands when I remembered I had left my phone charger in the house. I ran out of battery and needed to go home and get it. I walked in on Gary and Kyle in my bedroom naked. I freaked out and ran out of the house and blocked both Gary and Kyle out. After a few hours of contemplation, I unblocked Gary. He reached out to me and apologized. He explained he had no idea Kyle was gay and was trying to teach Kyle how to have sex with a man because Kyle was a virgin and was embarrassed to lose his virginity. Gary also said sextants are expensive to hire and that he didn't want to ruin Kyle's life by firing and exposing his sextant.<br><br>I was skeptical, but Gary was so sincere and begging to give him the opportunity to prove himself to me once again. He convinced me to give him a second chance. I decided to test Gary and made a plan to see him at work today.<br><br>Today, I decided to go to the practice unexpectedly. I walked in and Gary and Kyle were in the conference room and Kyle was naked while Gary was in his work scrubs. The conference room is a glass wall room with a door and you can see inside from the lobby. I leaved and called Gary to yell at him. He said "Did you fall for that? You should know better? Kyle and I were working on the display in the conference room." I looked at the display case in the lobby and the display had been knocked down. I felt bad and apologized to Gary.<br><br>Gary invited me out for dinner and I agreed. I walked in the restaurant and saw my mother, Gary, Kyle, my father, my siblings, and their spouses and kids. It was my surprise engagement party that was originally planned for a month ago. Gary got everyone's schedules lined up and we had a great time. Gary even bought me a necklace to make it up to me.<br><br>I am confused. Was Gary telling the truth? I kind of feel like he was trying to throw me off in some way and that this was the only way to get me to trust him. I don't know what to do. I love Gary but am I just being paranoid?<br><br>Edit: I don't know where people are getting that Kyle sextant is gay. It was Gary's story that Kyle the sextant was a virgin.<br><br>It was Gary's idea to hire Kyle the sextant. It was not a state requirement.<br><br>Kyle is 18. I don't know why people are saying he is 17. I said Kyle was 18 years old.<br><br>I'm not sure what "sextant" is but Kyle the sextant only cleans and does maintenance in the office.

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